Living above or below the line (Victor/Victim)
Thought I'd post this. I'm in the middle of an NLP course and I love it. This comes from my office, but fits so well with my life, my learnings so far this course.
OWNERSHIP
ACCOUNTABLILITY
RESPONSIBILITY
__________________
BLAME
EXCUSES
DENIAL
Above the line, you will be a VICTOR. Most people tend to live below the line. We all go there at times. The key to this chart is realizing when you are below, and getting above the line.
Below the line, we BLAME other people for our lot in life, or make EXCUSES, or worst of all, live in DENIAL. Below the line, we are VICTIMS. When facing challenges (opportunities in disguise), instead of blaming or making excuses, or denying the situation, take ownership, and use your ability to respond, and be accountable to getting the results you deserve and create.
OWNERSHIP
ACCOUNTABLILITY
RESPONSIBILITY
__________________
BLAME
EXCUSES
DENIAL
Above the line, you will be a VICTOR. Most people tend to live below the line. We all go there at times. The key to this chart is realizing when you are below, and getting above the line.
Below the line, we BLAME other people for our lot in life, or make EXCUSES, or worst of all, live in DENIAL. Below the line, we are VICTIMS. When facing challenges (opportunities in disguise), instead of blaming or making excuses, or denying the situation, take ownership, and use your ability to respond, and be accountable to getting the results you deserve and create.
posted by Maisymac at 12:03 PM
1 Comments:
I like that very much Fi. It fits for me too. I like this thought:
"I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it, fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments."
Just another thought.
Will
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